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Why I blog

This blog is fun for me to write, but it wasn’t always fun. I spent at least 6+ months thinking about it and not doing it because I believed that the only reason a life coach would blog would be [...]

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I could stay here

Yesterday my brain offered me a surprising thought: You could stay here.  As a full-time RVer, staying means giving up the easy dopamine hit of always arriving someplace new.  It means letting go [...]

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Writing as an act of love

When I go to the scary places, the places I resist the most, the very first thing my body does is to close off my throat so that I cannot speak. It thinks that by keeping the safety engaged on [...]

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Living in Ready

I’m not ready.  When you tell yourself this you play small.  You’re staying in the safety zone of your life.  You’re taxiing the runway, but never taking off.  When will you be ready? Answer this [...]

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The Illusion of Safety

When I had the thought that no one was reading my writing, I felt free to be bold and brave. I felt safe. Now that I’ve told a few people that I’ve been writing and I’m no longer anonymous, I [...]

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Braver than Rejection

I asked someone to be my friend this week. She said yes.  I can’t remember the last time I asked someone that. Maybe never.  She’s someone I’ve had a girl crush on for months and it never [...]

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You Don’t Have to Do this Alone

You don’t have to do this alone.  That was my first thought this morning.  Do what alone? I ask.  Your marriage.  My husband’s been telling me this more and more lately. We’ve been trying to have [...]

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Doing Scary Shit.

I did something scary yesterday. After I wrote this post, I decided to take my coach up on her dare to me. She told me that maybe what I really needed to do is go TOWARD the vulnerability and [...]